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The Good, the Bad, and Lessons Learned – Heath & Alyssa

The Good, the Bad, and Lessons Learned – Heath & Alyssa


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Can we speak about the truth that 2020 is



The top of the 12 months—any 12 months—is at all times my favourite time.

Not simply due to Christmas, however the twinkling lights and apple cider positively assist.

However as a result of we’re about to get a contemporary begin. A clean slate. A complete new 12 months.

It’s Heath’s fault that that is at the moment caught in my head.

​Heath and I are obsessive about targets (in case that wasn’t evident already) and these previous few weeks in December are an opportunity to mirror. Relaxation. Determine what’s subsequent.

I’ve been serious about every thing that occurred in 2020. The nice, the unhealthy, the loopy troublesome, the primary two months of the 12 months, which felt like a unique WORLD than the remainder of 2020.

One factor Heath and I at all times do on the weblog is to share our 12 months in evaluation on the earlier 12 months and our targets for the following. (I’m saving the targets for after Christmas.) Let’s begin with the good things.

OR you’ll be able to take heed to this weblog submit in podcast type:

2020: The Good


Okay, to begin with, we spent over a month in Florida final January, and guys, why did we not do that yearly as RVers? It was every thing I wanted in life.

Heath and I switched up our journey schedule this 12 months to suit higher with an lively child. This meant staying in locations for 2-6 weeks at a time and slowly exploring an space.

We LOVED touring this fashion, particularly when it meant so many choices for having fun with fall throughout Colorado. I see extra leisurely lengthy stays sooner or later.


The tenting trade SOARED this 12 months. Heath and his staff grew Campground Reserving 244%. (I’m about to show 30 and I nonetheless can by no means work out how individuals calculate percentages over 100, however I do know that’s actually good.)

And my guide, revealed over three years in the past now, outperformed final 12 months’s gross sales. This may very well be as a result of so many extra individuals purchased RVs this 12 months, however I additionally suppose it’s as a result of I took the time to replace the guide’s content material.

(We now have an outstanding visitor submit from writer Lindsey Nubern on easy methods to know if you should update your book. If you happen to’ve obtained a guide that wants a lift in content material or gross sales, I like to recommend it!)

Heath & I additionally started working with our pals Kara & Nate to plan and emcee their documentary premiere again in January—a lifetime in the past! Somebody advised Heath this 12 months that being an entrepreneur is an excuse to work with pals. We so agree and love any time we are able to say sure to tasks with pals. Extra of that in 2021, please 🧡

portion of our enterprise power this 12 months went towards studying about shopping for and operating a campground.

We’ve toured properties, met with contractors, talked to realtors, buyers, mentors, pals—aaaand we haven’t pulled the set off on a property but. We’ve been shut—a number of occasions!—however issues hold falling via. So I suppose this an excellent factor that occurred in 2020 but additionally a irritating and troublesome factor.

We now have some irons within the fireplace that we’re at the moment pursuing, however property homeowners don’t need us making something public till the ink is dry, so we’re going to be fairly tight-lipped on any property particulars.

However the precise coolest enterprise factor of the 12 months was most likely being on the duvet of Rootless Journal.

This can be a complete vainness factor, however since I used to be a child, I at all times needed to be on the duvet of {a magazine}. I believed it will be because the world’s first prima ballerina/pop singer however a magazine issue dedicated to being an RV entrepreneur is fairly superior too 🙂


And lastly, just about every thing about Ellie. This 12 months she realized to crawl. Stroll. Discuss. Bounce. Sing. Dance. The opposite day she walked over to our introduction calendar, pulled out a Hershey’s kiss, unwrapped it, threw the wrapper within the trash, and yelled “extra!” earlier than she even ate the chocolate. She’s a genius, and clearly her mom’s daughter.

However as a lot as I like her, maybe the most important win of 2020 was discovering childcare for Ellie this fall from a stay-at-home mother on the town. There’s solely a lot work I can do throughout nap occasions and now Ellie has a BFF.

Full-time RVing this 12 months, being a full-time stay-at-home mother and working a enterprise, AND attempting to purchase a campground…it was quite a bit. And I wasn’t doing something nicely. Now I’ve 20 hours per week that I might be productive on the enterprise, and it feels so GOOD.

2020: The Dangerous

Compared to so many others, nothing horrible occurred to us in 2020. However we did have some actually exhausting moments and fell wanting targets, as a result of that’s life.

The largest second was canceling our convention in March, despite the fact that we already had 100+ attendees on-site for the occasion. What a loopy time.

We talked on the podcast about how we made the fast pivot to a digital occasion, dealt with partial refunds, shipped out t-shirts to attendees, and blazed onward (episode 201).

We haven’t closed on a campground but, like I already talked about, which looks like a significant fail for 2020 since that was our #1 aim this 12 months. However targets shift and we realized again in July that we would have liked to discover a home first and a campground second. So we will likely be full steam forward on a campground in Q1, AND we are going to lastly launch the Campground Startup podcast on February 1st (one other venture we have been going to begin in 2020!).

I believe one of many worst elements of 2020 for me was feeling like I couldn’t do something the best way I needed to. And never in an “I wish to take Ellie to the pool and educate her to swim, oh wait all of the swimming pools are closed eternally” type of manner.

I began engaged on my subsequent guide this summer time, like actually working. I wrote a number of chapters. Felt actually good about it. Phrases have been flowing. Publish its have been in every single place. Tales and reminiscences flooded again to me.

It’s the guide I needed to put in writing again in 2014 once we first began RVing, sharing tales from our travels and what life on the highway was like.

However then we have been caravanning with pals. Ellie switched from two naps to at least one. Heath began working extra hours to boost cash for Campground Reserving. Household was driving up from Texas to go to us. I used to be behind on a course we have been launching that wanted consideration. I didn’t have any youngster care choices, solely late nights and early mornings.

I didn’t really feel like I had any management over my time.

So I’ve a number of chapters of a guide written that I haven’t checked out in far too lengthy, despite the fact that I deliberate on publishing it this month.

This was a giant emotional battle for me and a giant theme for us for 2020. I couldn’t be a mother, a traveler, an entrepreneur, and a author all of sudden. I wanted assist and I wanted to chop again. (That is one thing Heath has felt too as he’s now working a 9-person distant enterprise with workers all around the world.)

Which is why childcare felt like such a giant win for me. And why it was the proper time for a sticks and bricks.

And so once more I be taught the lesson, I can do every thing, however I can’t do every thing on the similar time.

So ending my subsequent guide goes on the listing for 2021 together with our podcast and our campground. It’s going to be a busy 12 months, I can already inform!

2020: Main Classes Realized

Along with studying for the millionth time that I can’t do every thing all of sudden, Heath and I realized a number of different massive classes this 12 months.

Life is just too quick to not do stuff you wish to do, even if you happen to do them badly.

In November, I partnered with my pal Barb of RV Foodie Kitchen to host a nightly cooking present. It was a dream come true.

Besides I actually tousled cooking ALL my recipes. And I might’ve achieved 1,000,000 little issues in another way.

But it surely was actually enjoyable.

I did it, despite the fact that it was scary. Further work after I didn’t have additional time. I used to be under no circumstances outfitted or expert sufficient to do it. Ellie ate uncooked batter whereas I used to be distracted speaking to the digital camera. I had 1,000,000 excuses to not attempt (I’m transferring right into a home proper now, now we have pals visiting, I’m not an actual prepare dinner, the listing goes on).

However I nonetheless did it. This can be a lesson I attempt to lean into a little bit extra annually: do the stuff you wish to do, even if you happen to’re not prepared. I remorse by no means attempting greater than I remorse making errors as I’m going.

Give your self grace.

I believe 2020 taught us all easy methods to give ourselves grace.

How you can let go of our fastidiously constructed plans. How you can pivot. How you can flow. How you can not maintain ourselves to metrics or numbers.

However as a substitute, deal with progress.

I didn’t do yoga 365 occasions, however I did 150 occasions (because of Yoga with Adriene). And that’s waaaay higher than final 12 months.

Progress > good, as they are saying.

You do you.

There was a time after I would reply to emails at all times encouraging individuals to additionally attempt full-time RVing. We cherished it a lot OF COURSE these complete strangers on the web could have the identical magical expertise.

However over the previous couple of years, I’ve modified my method. As a result of full-time journey isn’t for everybody. Beginning a enterprise isn’t for everybody.

And that’s one thing we’ve shifted on our web site this 12 months. Like extra assets for distant work and being a digital nomad generally, as a substitute of solely assets for beginning a enterprise. You do what’s best for you (and I’ll submit the assets, interviews, and visitor blogs from allllll the touring consultants).

That is one thing I wish to do extra of in 2021—extra guest blogs and interviews with people who find themselves smarter than me.


Heath turned 30 yesterday. I flip 30 in two weeks. (Ellie won’t ever flip 30 as she agreed to remain tiny and lovable eternally.)

And we’re embarking on an entire new decade of life.

Our 20s have been superb. We met and obtained married. Traveled greater than we ever thought we might. Had a child. Purchased a home. Began a bunch of companies. Paid off all our scholar debt.

I count on 30 to be chock filled with much more adventures.

Extra on setting targets and planning for 2021 subsequent week 🙂

Till then, wishing you secure travels, good well being, however an unhealthy quantity of Christmas cookies. Tis the season!



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